 The topic of gender is not something I should take on, but if I do, consider this an ill-informed attempt. Someone (s) unnamed should do a proper take. Maybe I can just provide some of the back scene. “There are just two genders”, is not really how conversations (disputations?) would have started, except that apparently that is Texas’ official stand. I think it would be more likely to want to counter some adult’s fear that school, or social media, etc, is going to turn, or has turned, their child’s ideas about their gender, or sexual interest in the wrong direction. Maybe there is something in the nerdy part below to help you guide them toward professional consultation and away from blaming others. This essay is mainly about the reasons why we have people who want to transition, not about age of transitioning, or public support of medical procedures. And I would like us to lead people on the sidelines away from stigmatizing others based on gender pigeon holes. It would be best if we could say that gender discussion is best left to the experts. It’s a private affair that society does not need to intrude on. But we are already over that line. How to convince your conversation opponent….. I. This is a “culture war” topic manufactured as a wedge. It would be good if we could just point that out and be done with it. “Can we agree that this is not as important an issue to you, yourself, as other policies that affect your wellbeing, like healthcare, and get on with other topics?” “Uh, OK. So what’s your stand on _______?” Unlikely conversation. For some of my friends, the gender topic triggers a fall-back to religious dogma (OK, I should say the teachings of their religion, their faith.) I want to suggest to them that fundamentalists are essentially saying that God stopped talking way back when people didn’t know much about biology, etc. (A bit more think at the end.) …. But it might be better just to argue that they do everyone harm by trying to impose their private understanding of the world based on faith into the world of others. So, what follows are a couple of nerdy bits which might serve to move a conversation away from stereotypes when you have someone whose feelings have been nudged in a wrong direction. II. Going to school in the late 1950’s - 1960’s, I wasn’t aware that any of my classmates might not be any other than girl-boy. Being called “homo” was a petty bad insult, so it would have been hard for anyone to “come out” (we would have said come out of the closet). And beyond sexual proclivities, would I have known of schoolmates uneasy about their assigned gender? No. Some girls were tomboys, some guys were a little “swishy”, but I was busy with my own interests and gave them little thought. Coming of age these days and dealing with issues connected with sex (that are usually underserved by our parents), it has to be confusing or hard to accept that there are schoolmates who could be unsure or unhappy with their gender, or their perceived gender. (I didn’t have to deal with that confusion at a tender age. I’m glad that whatever exposure I had to history or philosophy or accepting people, I was able to be an accepting adult.) And so, a conversation based on personal exposure… “There are two genders…”
Most of us, as young people, would have thought of the above various types as “not like me”. But they are all like me in most respects: they are people with the same needs as I have (if not more). And as a young person we would have seen each of these as “they are who they are”. I don’t have to be friends with them, so go back to my own thoughts And for us as adults, we can grow that thought, going from “I can’t do anything about it” to “I don’t need to try to do anything about it (unless we are professionals or enlisted to help). Our ethical obligation is to do right by each type of person we find ourself dealing with. OK, so remember I’m talking about different people in general who are not exactly like me, but I’m focused especially on people who differ in one way: because I’m not seeing the person gender-wise they see themselves as. What I have is my confusion, misled by appearances, not their confusion. My ethical obligation is to do right by each type of person I’m dealing with. IV. When I took Genetics in college, we were still mainly concerned with chromosomes. We knew then that there was more than XX and XY. It was known that there were a few people with uncommon sex chromosome configurations: XXY, XYY. And there were hints that hereditary material outside the nucleus could affect various traits. Much more has been learned since then. Biological sex itself is not strictly binary — it’s determined by a combination of chromosomes, hormones, gonads, and secondary sex characteristics, which don’t always align neatly. Intersex people, for example, make up about 1–2% of the population, showing that nature already provides diversity beyond a simple male/female framework. For a graphic that illustrates the possible complexities involved with gender: https://www.scientificamerican.com/article/beyond-xx-and-xy-the-extraordinary-complexity-of-sex-determination/ From a FB post June 28, 2025 Rebecca Helm, a biologist and an assistant professor at the University of North Carolina, Asheville US writes: Friendly neighborhood biologist here. I see a lot of people are talking about biological sexes and gender right now. Lots of folks make biological sex sex seem really simple. Well, since it’s so simple, let’s find the biological roots, shall we? Let’s talk about sex...[a thread] If you know a bit about biology you will probably say that biological sex is caused by chromosomes, XX and you’re female, XY and you’re male. This is “chromosomal sex” but is it “biological sex”? Well... Turns out there is only ONE GENE on the Y chromosome that really matters to sex. It’s called the SRY gene. During human embryonic development the SRY protein turns on male-associated genes. Having an SRY gene makes you “genetically male”. But is this “biological sex”? Sometimes that SRY gene pops off the Y chromosome and over to an X chromosome. Surprise! So now you’ve got an X with an SRY and a Y without an SRY. What does this mean? A Y with no SRY means physically you’re female, chromosomally you’re male (XY) and genetically you’re female (no SRY). An X with an SRY means you’re physically male, chromsomally female (XX) and genetically male (SRY). But biological sex is simple! There must be another answer... Sex-related genes ultimately turn on hormones in specifics areas on the body, and reception of those hormones by cells throughout the body. Is this the root of “biological sex”?? “Hormonal male” means you produce ‘normal’ levels of male-associated hormones. Except some percentage of females will have higher levels of ‘male’ hormones than some percentage of males. Ditto ditto ‘female’ hormones. And... ...if you’re developing, your body may not produce enough hormones for your genetic sex. Leading you to be genetically male or female, chromosomally male or female, hormonally non-binary, and physically non-binary. Well, except cells have something to say about this... Maybe cells are the answer to “biological sex”?? Right?? Cells have receptors that “hear” the signal from sex hormones. But sometimes those receptors don’t work. Like a mobile phone that’s on “do not disturb’. Call and cell, they will not answer. What does this all mean? It means you may be genetically male or female, chromosomally male or female, hormonally male/female/non-binary, with cells that may or may not hear the male/female/non-binary call, and all this leading to a body that can be male/non-binary/female. Try out some combinations for yourself. Notice how confusing it gets? Can you point to what the absolute cause of biological sex is? Is it fair to judge people by it? Of course you could try appealing to the numbers. “Most people are either male or female” you say. Except that as a biologist professor I will tell you... The reason I don’t have my students look at their own chromosome in class is because people could learn that their chromosomal sex doesn’t match their physical sex, and learning that in the middle of a 10-point assignment is JUST NOT THE TIME. Biological sex is complicated. Before you discriminate against someone on the basis of “biological sex” & identity, ask yourself: have you seen YOUR chromosomes? Do you know the genes of the people you love? The hormones of the people you work with? The state of their cells? Since the answer will obviously be no, please be kind, respect people’s right to tell you who they are, and remember that you don’t have all the answers. Again: biology is complicated. Kindness and respect don’t have to be. Note: Biological classifications exist. XX, XY, XXY XXYY and all manner of variation which is why sex isn't classified as binary. You can't have a binary classification system with more than two configurations even if two of those configurations are more common than others. Biology is a shitshow. Be kind to people. *************** Back to the impact religion has had on the discussion. We go back to Genesis, a great and eternally problematic book. I think my grandfather may have just been baiting me when he claimed that men had one fewer rib bones than women, because of some words in Genesis, but I wasn’t sure. God created man and woman. OK, that is He created these biological beings that have a tremendously complex inner working that we are still working to understand. And some of that product of omniscient creation has produced results that we discuss here. Also, we speak of God-given talent, etc. Let’s then allow God-given other. Lady GaGa sings: “Baby, I was born this way”. There are some people who worry that the power of exposure to alternative gender ideas leads to young people “deciding” to change genders. I think there is some scholarly debate, nature vs nurture, even on this topic. However, the hearing from people who want to or are in process of “transitioning” leads me to believe that usually the seeds of gender dysphoria are there at the start of life. Have an open mind. Do not close your heart. Other sources: https://www.hrc.org/resources/get-the-facts-on-gender-affirming-care https://www.apa.org/news/press/op-eds/gender-affirming-care https://www.aamc.org/news/what-gender-affirming-care-your-questions-answered A medical reviewer provided some additional comments: One small but important clarification I’d offer is that “gender dysphoria” isn’t quite the same as being transgender or non-binary. It’s a clinical term used to describe the distress someone might feel when their gender identity doesn’t align with their body or the sex they were assigned at birth. Not all trans or non-binary people experience that distress — and many people who do experience it find it resolves or lessens when they can express or live as their true gender. So gender diversity itself isn’t a disorder; the distress sometimes associated with it is what’s recognized medically. The comparison to ADHD, autism, depression, and schizophrenia is understandable as a way to express prevalence, but it can be misleading. Those are neurological or psychiatric conditions, while gender identity is not. The World Health Organization actually moved “gender incongruence” out of the mental-disorder section of its international classification system (ICD-11) in 2019, recognizing that it’s a matter of identity, not pathology. So while “male and female” can describe common biological categories, gender refers to identity, roles, and expression — a social and psychological construct that can vary across cultures and individuals. It’s why the concept of “two genders” doesn’t fully reflect human reality, even though it’s the view most of us grew up with. Today’s science sees gender diversity as a normal part of human variation, not a symptom or trend. The more we learn, the clearer it becomes that supporting people in living authentically is what actually reduces distress, rather than causing it. A search on “biological gender determination” will bring you more aspects of the discussion. Examples: https://pmc.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/articles/PMC11771763/ https://www.sciencedirect.com/science/article/abs/pii/B9780128159682000098 DABWrite something about yourself. No need to be fancy, just an overview.
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